tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post3959558722088239246..comments2024-01-02T06:57:26.352-05:00Comments on Life and Love in the Petri Dish: SurfacingUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger59125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-43649355969549538852009-10-08T13:44:10.217-04:002009-10-08T13:44:10.217-04:00I am so very sorry to hear this news. I hadn'...I am so very sorry to hear this news. I hadn't been following any blogs for a few months now, and the last time I read yours, it was a much more hopeful time. Please accept my condolences on your loss and add my voice to the chorus of folks who are sending hugs your way.<br /><br />Best to you and Will. Hang in there - together.ToddVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00650451010438567152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-18099147278514226792009-08-28T10:12:20.145-04:002009-08-28T10:12:20.145-04:00Im sorry to have seen your news so late. I have be...Im sorry to have seen your news so late. I have been a silent follower and I am so incredibly sad for you. I don't understand why these things happen. Sending you my love xxxBechttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02475383139764141252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-72948609454913224042009-08-21T01:06:57.369-04:002009-08-21T01:06:57.369-04:00Sending you many hugs, much love and lots of peace...Sending you many hugs, much love and lots of peace as you travel down this road of what to do next.<br /><br />You and Will are in my thoughts and I'm holding you both so very close to my heart. I'm so very sorry.<br />*HUGS*Beautiful Messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-7939264484640354622009-08-20T13:17:31.770-04:002009-08-20T13:17:31.770-04:00You are in my thoughts as you struggle through thi...You are in my thoughts as you struggle through this very dark time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-37995625483552165392009-08-19T22:13:46.345-04:002009-08-19T22:13:46.345-04:00Words cannot express the sorrow I am feeling in my...Words cannot express the sorrow I am feeling in my heart for you guys. Sending prayers your way!My Endo Journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00752744479527167274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-29743097455031271642009-08-19T18:37:13.092-04:002009-08-19T18:37:13.092-04:00Glad you have surfaced, and big ((((HUGS)))) for a...Glad you have surfaced, and big ((((HUGS)))) for all you and Will are going through. Take time, grieve, and see where that takes you. I'm just so sorry you must go through this, its unfair. Hang in there.Piehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01260418310827631840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-26540148646660365382009-08-19T17:24:13.246-04:002009-08-19T17:24:13.246-04:00I'm so sorry, Mo. I had such high hopes, ever...I'm so sorry, Mo. I had such high hopes, everything just seemed to line up and this seemed like your time. My heart is just broken for you. All I can think is take time for just the two of you. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-42677931267260388172009-08-19T16:57:44.839-04:002009-08-19T16:57:44.839-04:00i don't know you, but i have been following yo...i don't know you, but i have been following your blog for a few months now, and i was so sorry to hear of your loss. i have thought of you a lot this past week and feel so sad for all you have been through. it's so unfair. i hope that in the coming weeks and months you are able to better discern what is best for you and your husband. you're in my thoughts.quadmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17254199098599230245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-31958207279154777282009-08-19T13:45:13.469-04:002009-08-19T13:45:13.469-04:00God, when I had my second miscarriage, I remember ...God, when I had my second miscarriage, I remember seeing the still baby on screen. Something about the image reminded me of a crumpled piece of paper. Worst feeling ever. <br /><br />I only had two miscarriages (and a jacked-up uterus) but I was paranoid throughout my third pregnancy. Turns out the paranoia saved my baby -- I guess it's like that old saying: "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean nobody's out to get you." I don't have any words of wisdom for you. If you decide to keep trying, chances are probably 100% that you'll be terrified the whole time. The only good thing about the terror is that it means the pregnancy hasn't ended yet. <br /><br />Thinking of you.Two Shorten the Roadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03552869938010784108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-48051016374641392342009-08-19T08:15:53.614-04:002009-08-19T08:15:53.614-04:00Thinking of you both and I really hope you get ans...Thinking of you both and I really hope you get answers through testing. The unknown and the fear must be so hard to deal with. Also, who wouldn't be finding this situation a strain on their relationship? The fact you are still together and communicating with each other shows what an amazingly strong couple you are. Take care of yourselves.MabelBnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-48958259840469419632009-08-19T05:39:56.041-04:002009-08-19T05:39:56.041-04:00I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could give ...I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could give some advice, but I just can't. I have had 3 miscarriages in the past and all 3 were different circumstances. I do believe that after some healing you and your husband will figure out what you feel is right for you and what steps you should take next. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.Carrie1074https://www.blogger.com/profile/09211829060766345472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-23952339122856141382009-08-19T00:52:29.581-04:002009-08-19T00:52:29.581-04:00So glad to see a post from you and know you are ge...So glad to see a post from you and know you are getting by, day by day.<br />I had 4 pregnancies prior to finally having a live birth with my 5th pregnancy and have had two chemical pregnancies and one ectopic since (and these are a mix of naturally conceived, IVF, DE cycles). It's a f*ed up mess. My FB status tonight is "Are some things just really not meant to be" because I'm not sure who I am in all this sometimes.<br />Do all that you said you would and then chart your course.Victorianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-12961654992638157592009-08-18T23:24:57.132-04:002009-08-18T23:24:57.132-04:00Mo, so glad you posted - I've been thinking of...Mo, so glad you posted - I've been thinking of you. My heart is aching for you and Will, of course this just isn't fair. And I so hear you about falling on the wrong side of the odds so many times; I just can't believe I've done DE 3 times and I'm still not pg. Hope the recurrent m/c docs can find SOMETHING fixable for you guys - it is just so terrifying to have no real answers. <br /><br />Thinking of you both, best of luck whatever you decide.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-65203388022224072872009-08-18T22:17:57.400-04:002009-08-18T22:17:57.400-04:00I've been checking in daily hoping to hear you...I've been checking in daily hoping to hear your voice. You have both been in my thoughts every day. <br /><br />I hope there are answers- wish there were anything at all that could lighten your load. We're all out here pulling for you.Dani819https://www.blogger.com/profile/00620957484893505246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-29772548091281953582009-08-18T20:22:08.667-04:002009-08-18T20:22:08.667-04:00I'm another one that mostly lurks but wanted y...I'm another one that mostly lurks but wanted you to know you're in my thoughts and prayers. As someone that has dealt with infertility, 2 m/c and 3 failed IVF/ICSI cycles, it changes a person. No matter how hard you try, you're changed. For me, 'the fear' never leaves, I'm always on the edge of my seat waiting for the shoe to drop - infertility and loss changes a person. It's hard to find anyone that can understand. Thinking of you both.Sheilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09488981503913508101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-52574492278110251422009-08-18T19:47:13.584-04:002009-08-18T19:47:13.584-04:00Am heartbroken for you.
xxxAm heartbroken for you.<br /><br />xxxone-hit_wonderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02392238740961497297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-63845043556218791292009-08-18T18:12:40.193-04:002009-08-18T18:12:40.193-04:00We are all here to help you find your way, wheneve...We are all here to help you find your way, whenever you are ready. Sending lots of hugs and love your way.MissMVKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12454986676679634784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-6299743056170939192009-08-18T18:11:41.461-04:002009-08-18T18:11:41.461-04:00really wishing i could somehow make it better.
s...really wishing i could somehow make it better. <br /><br />sending you lots of love and positive vibes!!<br /><br />xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-50324562000591536952009-08-18T18:05:30.578-04:002009-08-18T18:05:30.578-04:00I wish you love and peace right now. Peace and ca...I wish you love and peace right now. Peace and calmness so you can find the love you have for each other, that you need to carry you through this loss.<br /><br />Just be for a bit. There's no timetable that says you have to know where you are going next. Take care of each other, cry, be sad, and love.<br /><br />♥Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06529652450620062626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-39040503758203112512009-08-18T15:35:14.509-04:002009-08-18T15:35:14.509-04:00While our stories are very different, I can relate...While our stories are very different, I can relate to what you said at the end. I do not look forward to being pregnant again. It was a nightmare for me. But I can't imagine not having my own child. <br /><br />You've been through a lot of loss, and it takes time to work through that grief. Not much can be figured out or done while you are grieving. I'm so sorry you have to go through this again. For me, it's like living all the other losses all over again too, so all the losses are compounded. Huge Hugs!!Phoebehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07668069274859889749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-60144949932674396422009-08-18T11:11:44.996-04:002009-08-18T11:11:44.996-04:00Your post really resonates as I too am dealing wit...Your post really resonates as I too am dealing with RPL. Thinking of you and Will and sending you big hugs.Lisahttp://thewombchronicles.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-28122932516408372572009-08-18T11:10:30.213-04:002009-08-18T11:10:30.213-04:00I'm so glad to hear from you. You two have be...I'm so glad to hear from you. You two have been on my mind every day since your last post. My heart broke when I read it. <br /><br />I understand your search for answers; I think I'd so the same thing. <br /><br />Thinking of you.Bluebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05026618678540051581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-43568772297072744042009-08-18T09:27:47.612-04:002009-08-18T09:27:47.612-04:00*hugs* thinking of you*hugs* thinking of youohyestheydid!https://www.blogger.com/profile/11325409541809534991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-40681703137750363432009-08-18T08:51:09.239-04:002009-08-18T08:51:09.239-04:00I am at a loss for what to say. I wish I could rea...I am at a loss for what to say. I wish I could reassure you and tell you that if you got pg you would have a happy and healthy pg secure in the knowledge that you would carry to term. It is the worst that both infertility and miscarriages have robbed us of that experience. I am so sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5160381109996491098.post-4152716941557453222009-08-18T07:09:39.494-04:002009-08-18T07:09:39.494-04:00Hi Mo and Will, I'm delurking here for the fis...Hi Mo and Will, I'm delurking here for the fisrt time, I wasn't sure what to say to you when I read about the baby. I was just so sad for you. I've been checking in daily to see if you're still blogging, and was very relieved to see this post.<br />Time is only thing that will help right now, your first reaction of not wanting to try again is very understandable. And although time does not heal, it does get better, that's all I know. <br />Take time out from everything, talk, cry, remember, dream.<br />It will get easier to cope, it will.<br /><br />Thinking of you two, always.<br />Lots of love Mandy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com