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Thursday, November 10, 2011

Remembering


Today we are also remembering, one year ago today, the loss of our sixth pregnancy.

Can't believe it was a year ago.

Can't believe we are still in this mess.

Can't believe we are still nowhere in terms of taking a next step.

Taking some time to grieve this loss, and the hits to each of us emotionally as individuals, the impact on us as a couple.

Here's hoping with everything we've got that by this time next year, we are out the other side.

Mo

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22 comments:

  1. KahlaNovember 10, 2011 at 10:07 PM

    (((HUGS)))

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  2. gwinneNovember 10, 2011 at 10:15 PM

    Thinking of you and wishing you both well.

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  3. DanielleNovember 10, 2011 at 10:16 PM

    Wishing with you for what should have been- hoping with you for what is to come.

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  4. AlexicographerNovember 10, 2011 at 11:36 PM

    Thinking of you.

    I don't think it's quite right that you haven't made progress toward your goal of growing your family, though I know you're not where you want to be.

    Hoping for you.

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  5. It Is What It IsNovember 11, 2011 at 12:21 AM

    Wishing for you this wish you wish for yourselves, that in one years time you are finally blessed (and I mean that in a secular way) with the long sought after and already loved child that you are destined to have.

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  6. sprogbloggerNovember 11, 2011 at 7:17 AM

    Yeah. Just--yeah.

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  7. St ElsewhereNovember 11, 2011 at 7:30 AM

    Very sorry for an anniversary of this kind...all the losses therein and such dashing of hope.

    My prayers and thoughts remain with you to chalk out a way ahead.

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  8. FGNovember 11, 2011 at 8:41 AM

    Mo, glad you got through the day. Hang in there!

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  9. cdgNovember 11, 2011 at 9:01 AM

    thinking of you and remembering your sweet baby. these marks of the passing of time get me every time. here rooting for you and holding your hand...

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  10. Marcia (123 blog)November 11, 2011 at 9:57 AM

    darling Mo, I also can't believe it's been a year!

    The passing of time is terrible - so slow and yet so quick.

    big hugs to you and Will

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  11. newbieNovember 11, 2011 at 10:04 AM

    I am right behind you hoping that this time next year you are on the other side. It's time for some good things to happen to you and Will. Hang in there, thinking of you...

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  12. AnonymousNovember 11, 2011 at 11:45 AM

    big hugs to you!

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  13. JemNovember 11, 2011 at 12:14 PM

    Light a candle and know that this community is supporting you in this time.

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  14. AnonymousNovember 11, 2011 at 3:45 PM

    Thinking of you today.

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  15. Mrs. JonesNovember 11, 2011 at 6:41 PM

    I hate how dates do that to us. They remind us of the loss, but also remind us of the very.slow.pace. of our journey towards a child.

    It's feels good at the time to think, 'oh a year from now we'll'. But then when that marker comes up, what a stinker that is.

    One of these days Mo, one of these days it will all come together.

    Thinking of you.

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  16. nurslouisaNovember 11, 2011 at 9:29 PM

    Many thoughts, hugs and wishes sent to you and Will. I hope that 2012 brings you the joy you so richly deserve.

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  17. StacieNovember 12, 2011 at 2:04 AM

    Many hugs to you both. Thinking of you.

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  18. RebeccaNovember 12, 2011 at 11:09 AM

    I'm sorry you've had to have so many of these painful anniversaries. I'm hoping with you that next year at this time, you and Will will be in a much different, better place in this aspect of your life.

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  19. KristenNovember 13, 2011 at 12:05 PM

    Hugs to you today...this anniversary must be so hard...

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  20. What IF?November 16, 2011 at 1:13 PM

    Thinking of you and Will during this incredibly challenging time.

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  21. ivfcyclerDecember 3, 2011 at 4:16 AM

    do you know the column "sugar"? she has an amazing ability to answer letters with important universal wisdom. for me, i often find that somehow it is somehow relevant to infertility. this one is on grief:

    http://therumpus.net/2011/07/dear-sugar-the-rumpus-advice-column-78-the-obliterated-place/

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  22. UnknownDecember 7, 2012 at 11:31 AM

    And looky here a year later and Miss Magpie is here!! Yah!! My heart is full for you!

    Jacky

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